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Marasmus
This episode raises the question about what
essentially makes humans human. It starts by recounting how that during
the Korean War, over 2000 United Nations POW’S who were isolated and
cut off from all meaning died from no known causes. They simply lost
their will to live. This isolation and loss of meaning somehow took away
their humanness. This process is called "marasmus".
A - The Key to Being Human
In the episode isolation appears to be the
biggest factor in dehumanising people.
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If you isolate a person they soon cease to be a
human being.
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Humans become human through human contact.
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It’s amazing. When you first go to a place, you
have lots of people coming to see you. After about a month or three
weeks you only have occasional people….It does get a bit lonely at
times.
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Would you agree with Robert that human contact, or
the lack of it, is the biggest factor in making people human or
inhuman?
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What are some of the aspects of modern life that
are pushing us into isolation?
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To what extent do you think we are progressively
losing contact with other people in society?
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If you think we are losing contact, how might we
reverse the trend?
B - The Causes of Marasmus
Those interviewed gave a
number of reasons for the existence of marasmus in society. Here are some
of them:
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We are literally speeding ourselves to death,
cleaning out what it means to be human.
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It’s not just enough to be a mother. They need to
go out and fulfil themselves and have a career.
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That’s the general thing that you’ve got to
make a success by having a nice pile in the bank.
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Socially isolated people are two to three times
more likely to die prematurely.
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Do you agree that life has sped up so much that we
are partly dehumanised by this pace? How do we slow down?
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Does the pace of living actually isolate people, or
is it just one link in a chain?
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Can you explain how the pursuit of a career and
material wealth may contribute to marasmus when these bring people
fulfilment?
C - The Drift to Marasmus
Given the pressures and
pace of life, many people feel that they are being driven to endure a
hectic lifestyle by forces outside of their control.
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Sometimes I feel like I’m just losing the battle,
that everything out there is so much bigger and more powerful.
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Modern society can sometimes leave us feeling that
it’s just inevitable that things just have to be this way.
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Why do you think many people feel helpless to
control their lives?
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Is modern life rushing us down a path of little or
no control in our personal lives, or are we the main cause ourselves?
What is your view?
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What strategies have you heard of for making better
choices and taking control of your life?
D - Marasmus in Families
There were claims from
the interviews that families are being adversely affected by the pace and
isolation of modern living.
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More efficiency is being felt by young families.
They’re constantly being undermined and being interrupted as a
family.
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It’s hard to keep your kids grounded into what is
real, because so much of what they are at home with isn’t….They
must have something to entertain them.
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And we are all inclined to think of old people as
of not much value.
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What evidence do you see around you that families
are suffering from the pace of life, the quest for career, and higher
living standards?
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How do you think families can bring balance into
their daily lives?
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Do you think the use of the internet and computer
games is changing children’s perspective of reality?
E - Another Reality
Part of the footage shows a group at
a street café discussing some aspects of virtual reality.
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Someone has come up with the idea of an artificial
womb.
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Technology seems to expand to create this
(technical) convenience.
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At the same time creating this impersonal world you
know, the virtual world.
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We don’t have to touch any more.
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Do you think that virtual reality is a harmless
entertainment service, or is it something insidious that takes away
peoples’ sense of meaning in life?
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Could virtual reality increase our sense of
isolation from others?
F - Some Remedies for Marasmus
Those interviewed suggested or implied a number of
strategies that we can use to combat marasmus.
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This kind of self-stripping of the masks and the
encrustations of damage that’s been done by racing, racing, racing,
can only be done by the individuals themselves.
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Research says that you find fulfilment and
happiness for yourself when you help somebody else achieve their
needs.
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The old world was very slow.
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Which if any of the strategies suggested would you
rank at the top of the list?
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Supposedly taking time out, helping others and
relating to others all help us to become more human. What if anything
do these strategies have in common?
G - Relationships
Relationships were rated
as being a major remedy for marasmus. There were a number of statements
indicating that forming relationships was a critical factor in staying
human or becoming human.
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Friendship is the basis of society that will make
it human and keep it human.
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I think that the very message that really I’m
trying to get across to my kids is that people are far more important
than anything else.
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He (my father) was a very hard worker, and he
always found time to play with us, and we loved that.
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Do you think that the formation of better
relationships is the key to overcoming marasmus? How do relationships
develop humanness?
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Are life’s speed, career paths, materialism and
individualism the main robbers of quality in relationships? In your
view what else figures in this process?
H - Overview
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Having reflected on the dialogue in this episode,
how do you think you are doing in being genuinely human?
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What steps do you think you need to take to
decrease any feeling you may have of being rushed, isolated, or
disconnected from others?
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Robert spoke of a kind of spiritual marasmus
created by life’s speed and the dehumanisation of the human spirit.
How do you see your lifestyle impacting on your spirituality?
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